A Guide to Sex: For Her
Every woman deserves a mind-blowing orgasm! They reduce stress, improve your skin, and make you feel… well, great.
But despite popular belief - and porn videos, it is rare for women to have an orgasm on penetration alone. The most sensitive parts of a woman are either on the outside of the vagina, or like the G-Spot, need pressure and TLC to stimulate.
To get a girl dripping, you must first understand her body.
Let’s go on a school trip through the tit, the clit and beyond.
*Everyone one loves round, juicy fruit.
Breast play can set off fireworks throughout the body. Thank you, nerves!
Slowly massaging them awakens the senses and sends the blood rushing to the head. Biting them and sucking them will influence sexual arousal all the way down her (and his) pants. To do it right, don’t squeeze the breast like an angry bird. Instead, give the girls some TLC.
When a partner touches you, you develop positive effects and reflectors. Being touched alters our sensory system and enhances our sensitivity to touch, smell, and movement. Titty time, stimulates our erogenous regions activating them all the way down our genitals. It builds anticipation, and that’s what foreplay is all about.
When the time is right, start with a light touch and gentle squeeze. Run your fingers through the areola and nipples in a circular motion (lick your fingers in-between to keep them moist). Suck them softly, lick and kiss the nipple and keep your gentle grip on them.
Now she’s hot and excited! Time to bring that tongue down under (lick and kiss the belly along the way for a more sensual transition).
This looks complicated, we know… but it is important to know what you’re touching and why. If you have a vagina, we encourage you to grab a mirror and see what it looks like for yourself.
Let’s work from the outside in and start with the “lips,” the labia. The Labia Majora is the outermost part of the skin. It protects the rest of the vaginal region. When someone talks about having “fat lips,” this is usually the part they’re referring to. It is very sensitive and an important one for foreplay.
The Labia Minora, also “lips,” are the fold that we see in all the porn videos. Some are wrinkled folds, others are long and others are thick and juicy; but they’re all beautiful.
Lick them. Kiss them. Caress them.
Matter fact, lick there and all around it. This is a moment of pure intimacy between you and your partner, and you should enjoy it. So should she.
Before we move on to the powerhouse, the “clit,” we’re going to peek inside the vagina and find the G Spot.
The G Spot
Where the G Spot is exactly varies on every woman. It’s in the interior wall of the vagina and presses toward your stomach. But its location depends on the size of a woman’s uterus. When you do touch it, you can’t be mistaken. Her face will completely change as she feels something magical going on down there.
First things first. Slip your fingers inside your partners vagina. Inside, bend your fingers in the ‘come here’ motion. By now, her vagina is already wet and engorged making it easier to find the G Spot.
Feel for something that feels like a bean with an orangy skin. That’s the G-Spot.
According to experts, the best way to stimulate the G-Spot is to tap it – so be careful how you stimulate it. Ask your girl what feels good to her. She’ll thank you later.
The Powerhouse, the “Clit”
This is the pleasure center for a woman. It is the key that unlocks the female orgasm. Its sole purpose is to create erotic sensation… and it may not serve any other purpose at all.
All hail the clit.
Like the breast: massage it, lick it and kiss it. But also suck it. It feels oh so good and sounds even better!
The Anus. Curious? Good!
The butthole gets a bad rep. Often called the ‘exit,’ it is very much an entry point to sexual orgasm. If you have any concerns, then practice anal play right after a shower. If you’re concerned about things getting messy (and they may), put a towel under the play area.
On your end, if you’re going in through the exit with your fingers, make sure your claws are trimmed and there’s plenty of lube around – as the anus isn’t self-lubricating.
A little touch and tease are nice before penetration. The rim around the hole has a lot of nerves and it’ll stimulate her all the way to the vagina. It is important for her to feel comfortable and relaxed too, it’ll make the experience a good one for both of you.
When you’re ready to put your finger in, lubricate it and go in slowly.
Once you’ve set the act of anal play in motion, flip her over on her back and eat her vagina while your finger is still caressing the inside of her anus.
If you want to feel it for yourself (and she’s ready for the next step), penetrate her from behind with your finger still in her ass.
Trust us. We’re not sex therapists, we’re sex activists. You’re welcome!
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