A Guide to Sex: For Him
It’s popular belief that when it comes to sex, men are more simple-minded. You touch us, we get hard. You lick your lips, we get hard. You rub our back, we get hard. But if you want to make us cum, it’ll take a little more work than that.
While women are more physical and turn on to the touch, most men are stimulated by using other senses – especially sound. A moan. A whisper. A ‘Yeah, Daddy…’ followed by a smack-ass sound.
Ooh, we love that sound!
If you want to turn your man on put on some nice perfume, moan in his ear, and rub the back of his neck. But if want to make him ejaculate to the roof, play with his [lower] head.
Let’s dive in.
While getting a man aroused isn’t as complicated, getting him to the finish line can be.
By nurture, we’re more thinkative during sex (is that even a word?). When we go to bed, we think about everything. Is our family safe? Are we brining enough to the table? Are we giving it our all at home… at work? And as our counterpart, if you want to get down to business, we expect you to turn off those thoughts and instead give us the “Oh, Shit!” factor.
Now, we’re not saying this is true about every man… just true about most.
I mean, if you walk into my office with a sexy outfit on, I won’t tell you to put your clothes back on. We’re getting straight to business! How passionate about it I am though, depends on what’s going on in my head.
Isn’t that unfair? My level of relaxation and involvement in the art of sex depends on how selfish you let me be. I’m sorry, partner (insert sorry face emoji here).
You just gotta hit all the right nerves.
Unlike women, we peak during penetration. Weather gay or straight sex, we love being inside of your body (or love to have you inside ours).
The most obviously sensitive part of our body is the penis… and the most sensitive part of our penis is the head.
When we’re getting “head” (blowjob, blowie, BJ), you have us under control. The feeling of wetness on the penis, the sucking up and down, the playing around with your tongue. All of it. You got every sensual nerve at your tips… and while we love when you stick our entire penis down your throat, it’s the head that receives the most pleasure.
But before we even get there, start with a little hand play. Please spit on it, get some lube or some oil because dry hands on a penis isn’t pleasant for anyone. How fast or slow you go depends on what the guy likes. Ask away! Knowing that you want to please us is a major turn on. Personally, I like a slow, wet and noisy hand job.
You have two hands. Use them. Play with our testicles too. Don’t pull or squeeze, but a little soft touch feels nice. Think of them as the equivalent of a woman’s vagina ‘lips.’ They’re sensitive and like to be softly touched.
Kiss my ear. My neck. My lips. Kiss me while you’re touching me. And now, every thought in my head is about you and getting inside of you.
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